Humble Ten Commandments to my Dear Wife

1.   Don’t kill other person’s passion.

2.   Understand the difference between expressing and overexpressing.

3.   Bring up the issue that is pinching inside.

4.   Give space.

5.   Give benefit of doubt but also not treat the other person as an equal and intelligent fellow.

6.   Balance between right thing and practical thing.

7.   Keep the fight behind closed door.

8.   Be rational and willing to empathize with the other party.

9.   Understand that rules are meant to be broken (these are just guidelines).

10.                     Don’t let society dictate the terms and conditions of our relationship.